Love and Understanding

If you are searching for a girl or boy who can understand you, to have a relationship, it means you have not understand what is real love is. Perfect relationship required unconditional love which doesn't depend on the understanding. Best example is the mother’s love towards her own child. They may not able to understand you, but still they love you, even though how naughty are you, how stupid are you, still loved you. No matter what mistakes you do their world is you. It doesn't matter whether you look cute or not that love is totally unconditional.  

If all mothers can love other children like their own child this world would be a far better place, on the other hand if you can love all the people you meet with unconditional kindness and forgiveness then they will soon love you as you love your mom.

Yeas of course it is easy to love someone who is like you, that’s is why you actually fall in love with someone not all the people. Also it can be a bit harder to love someone who's different, whose motivations you don't understand, especially for the persons you are meeting for the first time. But the effort is infinitely worth it. At least if you can make unconditional love to your partner no matter what they do then you are in “love” 

"Time Beggar " , Are we ?

We always care about the money and think twice when we buy something even it will cost a little , but we spend time as we have plenty, time spent cannot be earn again while we can earn money any day....

So if we think carefully before spend 1 min of time for a useless job in the same way we think when we going to buy an expensive ice-cream which is of curse not a waste wink emoticon we may be able to save time ....

Remember "Life is sufficiently long, and has been granted with enough generosity for us to accomplish the greatest things, provided that in its entirety it is well invested"

"Life is not that short rather we make it short"

Dont let the time pass without your notice

Our attitudes in the non-existing world....

My memory goes back to particular lecture on SAP2000 in my undergraduate period. I still clearly remember he said , when using SAP2000 “don’t say, draw a line”, because there isn’t a thing call line or drawing, what we do is adding an element , actually even not an element, we are adding a matrix (element matrix) to our main programme (main set of matrix) .

Similarly in a computer we see 'folders' but there is not a thing called 'folder', it is just some numbers and logic, we see a 'wallpaper', but it also does not exist, in real there is nothing in inside a computer other than some material and logic.
So similarly when we think of a 'person', is there a 'person' ?, again the answer is no, it just a bunch flesh and bones. So the difference is, we call these non-existing things by names (folders, wall paper). Ultimately we get bonded to these non-existing things and we forget 'folders' doesn't exits.

This moment I remember something I learnt in my microwave remote sensing lecture, We see trees as green, but what is the colour of trees ?? because trees are not green ( we see them green because it absorb other colours than green) so can you think of the colour of leave in a light of two red and blue lights (leaves absorb red and , blue mainly) ideally we would see black, thus trees haven’t colours , there is no such thing exits, what happen if our eye is set to see a different range of waves length (for example Infra-red, have you seen IR image? , ) again we can define set of colours in IR range but we call animal who see IR instead of light wave as colour blind ironically they may be having a better “colorful” world defined by them .

"Don't make effort to make your wallpaper beautiful..."

Be wised to understand the truth and to select the true path of life to achieve ultimate happiness.